Thanks April, I'm ok! I was just feeling a bit shit and really just looking for someone to chat to who is going through the same thing. None of my family or friends are overweight so they just don't get it! Thanks for your kind wordsApril said:Hello Melonhelen. Why are you feeling down? You are going so great! Sorry, my Duromine story is over long time ago, so I just dropped in to tell you that you are doing just great! Please, keep it up and reward yourself with something nice (not food). You deserve small rewards for each new mini goal reached. Smile more and enjoy each new day that brings you closer to your goal. Cheers!
Hey Sunshines, I would love that thank you!! I like just being able to check in a couple times a week with people who are doing it too, and my friends and family (as supportive as they are) can't really relate to what's happening with me. At the moment, I'm focusing all my energy on losing weight, eating healthy and exercising. And all those things are a massive change for me so it consumes all my thoughts and it probably bores them to hear about it all the time. So it is nice to have people to talk to that are going through similar things.Sunshines said:Hi there
I literally just got off a call with a online doc who has given me duromine (will pick it up after work) I can't share anything yet, obviously, but I'd love to chat be your support buddy if that's what you're looking for
I'm a bit nervous after ready the side effects I'm already a moody cow since putting on this weight!! Anyways I'm here if you'd like to chat.
Sunshines
Wow April thanks for all the positive words. You should be a motivational speaker! I really appreciate your support. I am feeling really positive. I had to have a week off exercise as I had sinusitis. I knew I wouldn't have a loss, and I didn't, and I got back into it yesterday and I'm feeling quite proud of myself for not letting it get me down like it usually would. Right now I've lost 6 kilos in my first month and that was my goal so I just keep reminding myself how good I am going. I know if I keep doing what I'm doing then I will get the results I'm after xApril said:Hi Melonhelen, it’s ok. Feeling bit shit is a totally normal thing. I am glad you decided to post about this. I hope you will continue feeling the same free to discuss anything you feel on this forum. Weight loss process is a very difficult one from all sides and aspects. Having a possibility to just spill it all out or get any support might be essential. SO always feel free and I know you can cope with all the stuff that makes you down.
As for the fact that your family and friends understand your worries or mood swings, this also should not let you down. Don’t let yourself get yourself into the feeling that you’re ‘all alone, no one understands you, nobody cares…’ YOU CARE! You don’t have to prove anything to anybody, but you yourself! And you will prove to yourself that you are a strong woman! No other options! The harder it gets, you only have to push even harder. Measure your success with small achievements and make each of them become your own victory over everything that tries to interfere with your success! Always!
Have a lovely cheerful day and hope you did enjoy your walk or exercising! =)
I just keep thinking about my goals, the end goal really. I hate being overweight and I'm just looking forward to being happy in my own skin again. I've been overweight just about my whole life til about nearly 4 years ago. I did a weight loss challenge with a group of ladies and I actually won the competition for the most percentage lost! I kept it off until both my parents got really sick and stacked all the weight back on plus more. So I know I can do it again and just keep reminding myself how good it feels to not be overweight and tired all the time!Sunshines said:I totally understand about losing weight consuming all your thoughts!! It's all I think about too. I haven't got anyone to talk to about it as no one knows I'm taking it, so I'm glad to have found this forum.
Day 1 for me has gone great (well it's 9:15pm so we'll see if I get any sleep) ;-) I've had no appetite but still managed to eat & exercise (light) the only side effect is a dry mouth but I'm drinking lots of water & chewing sugar free gum.
What sorts of things are you thinking about when you do think about your weight loss, are you thinking about your goals or ways to lose more?